It's my second "official" Aloha Friday! I'll ask a question, you answer and leave your link, and I'll hop over to answer yours. To join the fun, visit www.islandlife808.com and jump in.

What if you found out your friend lied to you about something important? Would you "forgive and forget," or hold on to it in the back of your mind? Would you confront them, or just see how it played out?

For myself, I'd have to say I'd hold on to it, depending on how close I was with this person, because I believe once someone lies there's either something wrong with the relationship or wrong with them. Usually I won't confront lies/liars because I find that when I don't the lies come out anyways or get so convoluted that the person lying ends up stressing far more than my face-to-face would have ever caused!

Am I crazy? Ian should be starting the EELPS Program in August and I'm freaking out already. I know he'll adjust and that he needs the speech therapy, but I'm stressing about the stupid things like, do I walk him to class in the morning or do the teachers? Do I pack his lunch and, if not, how can I be sure he gets a healthy lunch? What about nap time? What about the days I have to drop him off at 7:30am- how will he know what to do and where to go? What about.... What about... I also want to schedule a time for him to see the class. I don't even know if they allow that, and if they do I sure am cutting it close...

I'm also going to miss his testing for his yellow belt. They're having the test at 11:30am at his school and, as luck would have it, I have to be at a probation hearing for one of my clients. Figures that it would be this date out of allll the dates in May.... *sigh*